Parenting Autism - Coping with Life
Parenting a child with an Autism Spectrum Disorder can be very intense. Children with autism have special needs and many require more attention than a ‘typical’ child, and this can be extremely draining on a parent. Keeping yourself in the best state to cope with the day to day parenting of a child with autism is really important.
Having regular ‘down time’ or time to yourself cannot be overlooked as a coping mechanism. Whilst it is often difficult to find a replacement carer for a child with autism, it is worth seeking out a family member or friend who is willing to give even an hour or so of their time so as to enable a ‘break’. We are lucky enough to have family members who take Jack for a ‘holiday’ (weekend) every 4 to 6 weeks just so that we can have a break from the day to day challenges and ‘intensity’ of life with Jack.
A healthy diet and rest is also vital. Parenting a child with autism will require having plenty of energy and stamina, as these children often need attention around the clock. Sleep can sometimes be difficult for children with autism - this in turn disturbs the parents sleep period. For parents of autistic children who do struggle with sleep, rest breaks should be taken where possible and plenty of fresh food should be eaten to keep the body and mind in as best condition as possible.
As a parent of an autistic child, there will always be days that are more difficult than others, and times when things will fall apart. But finding ways to cope with the day to day parenting of a child with autism is really important, and may help with a smoother transition in getting back on top of things if they do come crashing down around you.
October 31st, 2007 at 8:30 am
All very true.
As my son got older i got better at coping. Not sure if that comes with more experience and just becoming more intune with your child?
October 31st, 2007 at 3:50 pm
Yup! I try and glug a bottle of liquid Centrum a week, just to be on the safe side.
Best wishes and Happy Halloween
February 17th, 2008 at 7:29 am
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