A Reflection on the Year that has been

As we look to begin 2008, it is an appropriate time to reflect on the year that has passed - the year that autism became a real part of our lives - and celebrate the wonderful memories that 2007 holds.

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This was the year that we discovered Jack for who he really is - we have learned more about him, and about ourselves as a consequence.  2007 has been a huge year for personal growth, and for developing our family relationships.

This was a big year of relief - finding answers… and with this came plenty of tears as well as plenty of joy as we made our way through the emotional battlefield that comes as part of finding a diagnosis.

This was a year to learn about letting go - and to trust that with enough love, our children will find their way in life.

This was a year for courage, and for finding the strength to move forward.

This was a year for questions, and for simply being content that the answers were there.

This was a year for learning, knowing, and living autism - and discovering that labels don’t have any bearing on how much you can love your child… yes, we love autism completely and unconditionally.

This was the year where our lives were turned upside down, but where our lives started to make some sense.

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And as the new year begins, we remember that this year, 2007, was most definitely a year to be grateful for.

Elissa & Steve :-)

WISHING EVERYONE A HAPPY AND JOY FILLED 2008 - MAY ALL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE!

12 Responses to “A Reflection on the Year that has been”

  1. Jen P Says:

    Yep…they got cuter! =o)

    Happy New Year and thank you for everything that you share! Looking forward to your book! (I expect prodding too ok?)

  2. Joy Says:

    Happy New Year!
    We found out in 2006 and I have to say that was the year I grew the most as a person and we grew together as a family.

  3. Elissa Says:

    Jen P - we’ll be prodding each other!!! xx

    Joy - it really is amazing how much you grow from it all, we have a totally different outlook on life to what we did 12 months ago! xx

  4. Joey Barton Says:

    Well said Elissa,

    Here’s to a great 2008, and remembering our successes and failures in 2007

    Have a Happy New Year

    Joey Barton
    www.balancinglifeandautism.blogspot.com
    www.autismspot.com

  5. Elissa Says:

    Thanks Joey

  6. Casdok Says:

    Happy New Year to you all!
    May you continue to grow!!
    :) Cas and C xx

  7. Marita Says:

    Happy New Year.

    I’m glad that in 2007 I found your blog.

  8. Elissa Says:

    Thanks Cas and C, I’m sure we will! xx

    and Marita - glad I found you too! xx

    And on that note, we have such lovely blogging friends - we’re glad we have all of you!

  9. tulipmom Says:

    “Emotional battlefield” — a very fitting description.

    Happy New Year to you and your beautiful family, Elissa!

    I too am thankful for having stumbled upon your blog this year.

  10. Marla Says:

    Adorable pictures! They both look like they are bursting with happiness! May your next year be full of learning and laughter and fun! I am glad that with this diagnosis you are seeing possibilities.
    Happy New Year!

  11. Karina Says:

    Beautiful! I loved this post. Your thoughts are so inspiring. Best wishes to you and your family for a healthy, safe and bright New Year 2008!

  12. childlife Says:

    Wow - those smiles are just amazing! You are doing such a great job with both of your kiddos and I hope this year continues to bring answers for your family in how to best meet your children’s needs. Happy New year Elissa!

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